In 2005 my good friend Afshin Ziafat (http://www.afshinziafat.com) had taken a trip with e3partners.org to the Middle East. During a phone conversation with him several weeks later, he drew me in, as only Afshin can, with humorous and inspiring stories from his experiences in the Middle East. He then paused and said, “Scott, you should check into e3. I think that you were made to do something like this. You should go with Mike Congrove. You’d love this guy.” So after some prayer and contemplation, I signed up to go to Ethiopia the first e3 adventure that Mike Congrove led as a Church Planter. Little did I know how God was going to use this trip to call me into the life of an international church planter. Little did I know how God would lead Mike to travel on from our Ethiopian campaign to the Sudan on an exploratory trip that would prepare him to become one of the finest Country Strategy Leaders (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wBUdvYLzYkQ) and mission pioneers that e3 has ever employed.
Well, I guess that Mike thought, ‘Hey Scott’s a pastor. I’ll just throw him out there in Africa several miles from our team’s home base (in Ethiopia) with two Ethiopians he’s only known for 1 day. It’s all good. He’ll be fine.’ So in August 2006 (I think it was August) I found myself being dropped off from our vehicle in the middle of no-man’s-land Ehtiopia with Worku and Eberra. The driver told us, “The village you’ll be going to is only a 3 mile walk from here”… except… I didn’t understand a word he said. I had to rely on Worku’s interpretation from Amharic to English. I thought to myself, ‘Scott you’re in over your head here’. But hey, I’ve never been one to back down from an adventurous challenge.
So there I was, a stranger in a strange, yet beautiful land nervously excited to share the life changing dangerous message of Jesus. As we walked up the road passing these beautiful people, I couldn’t help but notice that each and every one of the people I passed couldn’t stop staring at me and my Scottish tan. Their obvious non-verbal gestures seemed to communicate that I was quite possibly the first white man these folks had ever seen in their neck of the woods.
Had Afshin predicted the future? Was he delving into the prophetic? I joke. Yet, after just two days of sharing the Gospel with these people, who were thirsty for life, I knew that I’d entered my element… my sweet spot… my God ordained purpose if you will. But it was during the third day of mission work there that God crystalized everything for me. On that day Worku, Eberra and I met 10 or 12 some were closer to 21 years of age and some younger with the youngest being a 14 year old boy. I call it my “boys to men” experience.
As I shared how Jesus came to earth to die for us, to resurrect and ultimately to save us, they all seemed interested at first… all except for a couple of the older guys, who seemed half drunk. They were mocking us. As I clumsily expressed the notion to them that each of them could repent and call on the name of Jesus to save them, even at that very moment, I could feel the tension. I could sense the invisible spiritual battles raging within them.
I’d like to say that they all or at least most of them came to know our Savior that day. But instead, as I spoke and Worku interpreted, one by one they turned and acquiesced to the pressure of the two older guys and the growing majority. In the end, they all turned away except for three of them. Two of these three boys shouted back toward their retreating friends saying, “Come back! We all need this. You know we need God.” I asked these three young men if they were ready to follow Jesus inviting them to believe on Him and to give their lives to Him. The two older ones, probably 17 to 19 years old, were ready. They bowed on their knees seeking God’s grace and willing to call on Jesus to save them. I didn’t ask them to do this. But their unsolicited posture expressed their sincere humility before God.
However, the fourteen year old hesitated. His name was Shirtu. I asked Shirtu if something prevented him from inviting Jesus to be his Lord and Savior. He said, “Yes. I have to ask my mother’s permission first.” Well, I hope that this doesn’t surprise you, but I really despise preachers who pressure others into some confession or profession before the people hearing are ready. In other words, I wanted to respect Shirtu’s willingness to submit under his mother’s authority. Nothing good comes out of false professions performed under spiritual bullying. But at that very moment it was as if God came down, took over my brain and tongue and said, “Shirtu, I’ll respect whatever you desire. But do you think that God wants to change you and to give you life through Jesus today so that you might offer the same gift from God to your mom tomorrow?” He nodded and said, “Yes.” Then he got on his knees with the other two older boys. They confessed and professed their love for and belief in Jesus right then and there.
The next day we made our way to an area of the village we hadn’t been to before and we unknowingly knocked on the gate of Shirtu’s yard. They have gates there connected to shrubbery surrounding their yards like a fence. Lo and behold Shirtu came to the gate. He smiled ear to ear with excitement and then ran to tell his mom that we were at the gate!
He’d already spoken with his mother about Jesus and the life change that he was now experiencing. During our conversation, Worku, Eberra and I only reiterated what Shirtu had shared with his mom. God revealed his sovereignty during our visit with her. We discovered that Shirtu’s mom was a widow with seven kids. Her deceased husband was the “right hand man” to the local witch doctor whom she was still following. Not only that, but she’d made her living brewing and selling an indigenous brand of moonshine that had lured many of the local villagers into addiction.
To make a long story short, she decided to give her life to Christ that day! Through God’s direction she quit her business and forsook everything to follow Him. She opened her hut to house the church that we started in that village. That was in August of 2006. Before losing contact with Worku sometime in the Autumn of 2008, Worku would email me from time to time to tell me how God continued to work through Shirtu’s family and grow that little house church in the middle of nowhere, Ethiopia.
Would you take a moment and pray for Shirtu’s family, the little house church, Worku and Eberra (who became the shepherd over Shirtu’s house church)?
Right Answer, but the Wrong Attitude
I’m sure that most of us have witnessed the war of words between the “pro-gay rights” folks and the “christians” stirred up by what I call “the Chick-fil-A Contraversy”. I left the label “christians” with a lower case “c” simply because many of our Christian brothers and sisters seem to be lowering themselves in this discussion turned debate turned shouting match.
Here’s a quick overview of the controversy in case you’ve been living in a cave: During an interview Dan Cathy (owner of Chick-fil-A) simply stated his belief in the traditional biblical view of marriage. That brought out many verbal protests by “pro gay rights” folks and then many wonderful “christian” people protested the protesters. That’s what Jesus would do, right? Just in case you didn’t catch the sarcasm, much of the “christian” reaction smacks of self-righteousness, condemnation and lack of love. Whether some form of self-righteousness lays in the subconscious motivation of the majority of “Christians” intentions or not, can’t really be proven. No man can judge another man’s inner thoughts (1 Corinthians 2:11). But at the very least, many people living outside of evangelical social circles perceive Christians this way. Who can blame them with the venom being spewed from several “christian” acrosse various forms of media. To those on the outside, it just looks like we Christians just want to prove that we’re right.
Christians (I, as in me too) Sin Also
Ok. Ok. We Evangelicals make mistakes too (including myself to the Nth degree). I’m going to be honest with you. It isn’t always easy for me to hold myself back. Watching “pro gay rights” advocates ignore rational discussion concerning the constitutional right of Americans to hold different beliefs concerning gay marriage can be very… very frustrating.
Sometimes I want to jump out of my chair at the TV, when “experts” claim that scientific genetic study proves that homosexuals are born this way. There are theories that lean that way, but they are simply theories, they fall significantly short of proof. On the other side, some scientific studies/theories suggest such genetic fatalism hypothesizes are improbable. The following link gives us one such example found in a journal. An interesting twist is that this quasi-academic piece was published by an anti-capitalistic, pro-gay rights and pro-abortion rights organization called the International Socialist Organization: http://www.isreview.org/issues/40/genes2.shtml This is a healthy portion of food for thought for those who read this article and have concluded that in fact homosexuality is genetically predetermined.
Many “pro gay rights” folks label us as hate mongers because we interpret God’s word as identifying homosexuality to be a sin. When I consider some “slow-to-think-quick-to-anger” Christians, I sympathize with those holding a more liberal bent toward the subject. However, according to the Bible sin (one sin and/or all sin) is an offense that leads to death (Romans 6:23). Euphemistically speaking sin is unhealthy. Not only that, but scripture clearly conveys the notion that all people, Christian and non-christian alike, struggle with sin (Romans 3:23). This means that all Christians have struggled or presently do struggle with at least one or more of the following: selfishness, pride, lust, greed, gluttony, gossip, idolatry, covetousness, fornication, pornography, lying, drunkenness and yes, even homosexuality. So a Christian, who genuinely seeks to be like Jesus (striving for sanctification), does not like sin, but actually truly loves the sinners. Or else, we’d have to hate ourselves.
If we’re honest, we all need salvation from behaviors carrying heavy emotional, physical and spiritual consequences. The consequences of sin are devastating because they adversely affect God’s beautiful creation. They steal faith, kill hope and destroy life of humanity. However, Jesus didn’t take on flesh and descend upon the earth to tell us: “You humans have ruined everything and there’s no hope”.
Our Goal Should Never Be to Make the Earth a Better Place for People to Go to Hell From
Qualifier: Ok. I realize the grammatical error and a flare for the dramatic in the sub-title. But it’s meant to leave a lasting impression. It’s really a modified quote from the late great Pastor Adrian Rodgers.
Can we Christians get it into our heads that folks without the guidance of the Holy Spirit are going to act like, well… people without the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Heck, it’s hard enough to live a godly life even with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit. Are those, who don’t know Jesus, supposed to act righteously before knowing the Righteous One? Is that our goal? Is it our mission, as Christians, to persuade or prod people to behave correctly?
Jesus didn’t come to point out our sins so that we can pull humanity from our moral-bootstraps. He came to save ALL of us from ourselves because we can’t save ourselves and loves us (John 3:16-17). So Christ Followers, “We are just beggars trying to lead other beggars to the bread of life”-Charles Spurgeon. It should never be our purpose nor is it within our tainted powers to make the world a more moral place.
The Love and Kindness of the Lord Leads to Repentance
I’m not saying that we need to hide the truth. And I’m not saying that Dan Cathy was wrong by expressing his biblically based belief. Cathy answered a simple question concerning his view on marriage in an interview without condemning anyone.
Here’s the most important question: How are proponents of homosexuality or those who don’t believe in the Gospel going to believe? Love is the answer. The same love that drove Jesus to the cross can drive enemies of the truth to Him. Sure, if someone asks you what God’s word says about homosexuality, tell him or her the truth. But try to let people know how much you really do love them and how much God loves them, even more. Focus on God’s love and kindness rather than the sin (Romans 2:3-5). This doesn’t mean that you have to totally ignore the truth about sin. I’m only pleading that we, as Christians, strive as much as we can to develop meaningful, loving and Christ-like relationships with people that hold opposite moral beliefs from us, that we might win some. We are His ambassadors, living breathing vessels of His Gospel of Love and Redemption.
For a more truthful, grace-filled and less clumsy perspective on the Chic-fil-A controversy, check out Perry Noble’s perspective: http://www.perrynoble.com/2012/08/01/ben-jerrys-chic-fil-a-political-correctness